child safety – iDefend https://www.idefendhome.com Ultimate Protection for Your Digital Life Mon, 26 Aug 2024 15:41:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 https://www.idefendhome.com/wp-content/uploads/cropped-idefend-favicon-32x32.png child safety – iDefend https://www.idefendhome.com 32 32 Sextortion: A Parent’s Worst Nightmare Coming Soon to a Smartphone Near You https://www.idefendhome.com/blog/familysafety/sextortion/ Tue, 23 Jan 2024 20:12:11 +0000 https://www.idefendhome.com/?p=5603 What starts out as a flirtatious text can quickly turn into a whirlwind of trouble for your child.

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What starts out as a flirtatious text can quickly turn into a whirlwind of trouble for your child.

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Predators and scammers will text your teen to try to develop a relationship by sending flirtatious and fun texts. They will say anything to help develop a relationship and connection all to set the trap.

The moment your child takes and sends the explicit pictures, it is far too late, the trap has been sprung and the scammer is prepared to take full advantage.

Panic is the Natural Response

Your child starts to panic. The person they trusted is suddenly threatening to release the pictures on your child’s social media. The person pulls names of friends and family members saying that they will personally message them the pictures and show them what they’ve done. Sometimes going so far to locate your child’s school threatening to post there to all of your peers, but then they’ll give your teen a way out.

If your child pays $500, then nothing will happen. No pics will be sent, and all of this can go away. The stress that your child is feeling is overwhelming, there’s a way out, but $500 is a lot of money. Thoughts of hopelessness, fear, anxiety and depression creep in as they’ve locked themselves in a corner with no way out and zero relief on the horizon.

Sextortion is Humiliating

To open up about it to a parent can be humiliating, and other thoughts of ways out can start to creep in. Teens that reported sextortion cases found that 1 in 3 teens had engaged in self-harm, threatened suicide or attempted suicide as a result of the sextortion.

It’s difficult when teenagers are constantly searching for gratification and acceptance. With that, hormones can play a major part and cloud judgment. They are learning all the new and exciting things becoming an adult holds, and to explore all of that is a thrilling adventure, but such choices can have major consequences that can affect years to come.

Sextortion is Avoidable

The sad part is that sextortion is 100% avoidable. With social media, your teen can instantly connect with anyone they would like, not knowing if they are real or fake. Everyday millions of messages are sent out to strangers to try to connect with them for a multitude of reasons, and predators will always search for a way in.

What you can do as a parent

So what can you do to ensure that your child never falls victim to this trap? Firstly, be sure to have open conversations with them about these kinds of threats. Educate yourself and them on the dangers of the world, and what people will do to take advantage. Recommend to them that they never message and text strangers they don’t know.

Most of all, especially with people they know, never send out explicit messages, pictures, or videos. Nothing good will ever come of that, and there are also legal actions that can be taken against your child for sending such pictures.

How and When Does it Happen?

Sextortion most commonly occurred via phone/tablet messaging apps, social networking sites and video chats. 56% of reports indicated that only one messenger platform was involved, yet 42% used multiple platforms. The offender would intentionally and systematically move the communication with the teen from one platform to another such as Facebook, Snapchat and text messages.

When your child sends the pictures or videos, 80% of predators will threaten blackmail on the same day. However, 20% of the reported cases indicated prolonged waiting periods before any threats of blackmail were made with the acquired content. In some cases, years later. With such blackmail and payouts victims lost more than $13.6 million in the 18,000 sextortion-related complaints in 2021.

Warning Signs & Predator Tactics

Those who your teen is talking to are rarely who they claim to be. Keep in mind that the teenage girl they believe they are speaking to may very well be a middle aged man. There are certain tactics to keep in mind that the predator may use such as:

  • Reciprocation, the offender promises to provide sexual content in return for your child providing the same. “I’ll show you, if you show me.”
  • Developing a bond by establishing a friendship/romantic relationship.
  • Secretly recording sexually explicit videos of the child during video chats.
  • Physically threatening to hurt or sexually assault the child or family members.
  • Using multiple online identities against a given child, such as the person blackmailing for sexual content as well as pretending to be a supportive friend or a sympathetic victim of the same offender.
  • Pretending to be younger and/or a female.
  • Threatening to commit suicide if the child does not provide sexual content.
  • Creating a fake profile as the child and threatening to post sexual content of the child.
  • Saving sexually explicit conversations with the child and threatening to post them online.

There is Hope

You and your family never need to become a victim of sextortion. Take the steps necessary and educate your child on the threats that exist around them. The online presence of predators and bullies are very real, but as we take the proper steps to prepare and protect our children, we can have peace of mind when facing the dangers of the world.

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How Reliable Are Video Game Ratings? https://www.idefendhome.com/blog/devicesecurity/videogameratings/ Tue, 11 Jul 2023 17:36:20 +0000 https://www.idefendhome.com/?p=5547 Video game content is all over the board, but is supposedly confined within a strict system of specific ratings. How much do you know about what these ratings mean?

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Video game content is all over the board, but is supposedly confined within a strict system of specific ratings. How much do you know about what these ratings mean?

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Much like movies, before publishing, each video game is reviewed and assigned a content rating by the Entertainment Software Rating Board (ESRB). You can use this as a quick tip-off to any offensive or questionable content a game may contain before buying it.

Where Are the Ratings?

It’s usually displayed as a large letter on the front or back cover of a physical game, and will be listed on the main page when purchasing a game online or via the console itself. Unlike movie ratings tucked away on the case, a game’s rating is often displayed prominently on the front cover.

There’s a content overview as well

Not only is the letter rating displayed, but next to this will be a snapshot of the game’s content. It’s typically listed as a handful of items such as: “Mild language,” “Suggestive themes,” “Cartoon violence,” etc. These will tell you what kind of things someone can expect when playing the game.

Rating: E

Rated for everyone

E-rated games have very little to no violence. If there is violence, it’s usually in the form of cartoon, fantasy, or mild violence. Also can include very light/mild language. 

This rating is going to be the most common on games geared toward families and kids, and as such is also one of the broadest categories.

Multiplayer and online capabilities

Many of these games will include online or local multiplayer options. When playing online, most modern games don’t allow voice chat and instead will limit any text-based chatting to preset words, phrases, or emotes (character performing a recognizable action such as “dance” or “wave”).

Additional billing and charges

Even E-rated games can contain additional purchases, downloadable content, and even unlockable items via real money. Often, this will mean the game stores a credit card on it, and if you’re not careful it can quickly rack up charges.

Another common option is virtual or in-game currency which can be purchased with real money. This is a safer option since it typically doesn’t store a credit card on file, but instead will take online codes or redeeming gift cards in order to load the balance.

Rating: E10+

Rated for everyone ages ten and up

Similar to the E-rated games above, these are more aimed toward families as well as slightly older children and pre-teens. Games in this category will likely contain a little more violence, language, and suggestive themes, but will still refrain from anything gory or explicit.

Multiplayer and online capabilities

It’s not uncommon for games at this level to include online gaming and interactions, though the text will still be filtered similarly to those rated E.

Additional billing and charges

Just like E games, many E10+ ones will have additional content that can be purchased with real money. As above, keep an eye on where your card needs to be entered and if the game supports virtual currency.

Rating: T

Rated for teens ages thirteen and up

At some point, most kids will move on from E-rated games and crave something a little more mature. This is where the Teen rating comes into play. Games in this category will have stronger language, more violence, and sensuality potentially tipping into light sexual themes. 

Multiplayer and online capabilities

Games in the T category with online capabilities typically have nearly-unmoderated chat lobbies including options for both text and voice chatting.

It’s also worth noting that many adults play these games as well, meaning that children and teens can converse freely with adults during gameplay. This is a common place for online predators to begin grooming as well as cyberbullying to occur.

Additional billing and charges

A lot of the popular T-rated games are filled with extra purchases, cosmetics (things that change visuals but don’t influence gameplay), and a slew of other things to spend money on.

Be sure you understand and check that your card isn’t saved on file to allow your kids to freely rack up a huge bill.

Rating: M

Rated for Mature audiences ages 17 and up

Potentially the largest and widest category of games in our list are for ones rated M. Like the name implies, this rating is for mature themes, mature language, and often mature sexual content.

That being said, the actual content can vary wildly from game to game, so it’s recommended you also pay attention to the content warnings next to the rating. Titles in this range can be rated M simply for high levels of violence but have absolutely no sexual content.

On the flip side, a game may simulate or even encourage sexual acts, portray nudity, and contain explicit language.

It’s always recommended that you do your research about a game in this category before buying it for a teen.

Multiplayer and online capabilities

Surprisingly, many of the games in this category do not offer online play but are instead intended as single-player games. Those with online multiplayer, however, will almost always have text and voice chatting.

Unfortunately, there’s not a strict standard for filtering or moderating any of these chats, so if you’re a concerned parent, check out our video game safety features included in iDefend.

Additional billing and charges

As with the other categories, these games often include additional purchases.

It’s worth noting for most of the single-player games, however, that the bulk of purchasable content is actually further expansions or modules for the same game, expanding gameplay and the storyline rather than simply throwing money at cosmetic items.

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Child Identity Theft Is a Problem You Can’t Ignore https://www.idefendhome.com/blog/familysafety/child-identity-theft-is-a-problem-you-cant-ignore/ Mon, 21 Mar 2022 15:52:31 +0000 https://www.idefendhome.com/?p=5001 A recent study released by the Carnegie Mellon CyLab revealed that children are 51 times more likely to become a victim of identity theft than adults. 51 times!

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A recent study released by the Carnegie Mellon CyLab revealed that children are 51 times more likely to become a victim of identity theft than adults. 51 times!

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More than 1.25 million children became victims of identity theft in the last year according to a study by Javelin Strategy & Research. The actual number is likely much greater because in many instances child identity theft is not discovered until they reach the age of 18.

Why Child ID Theft is Dangerous

The theft of a child’s identity causes major problems for the child as they grow up, and it has become a big national problem. A recent study released by the Carnegie Mellon CyLab revealed that children are 51 times more likely to become a victim of identity theft than adults. 51 times!

Synthetic ID Theft

The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) has said that “synthetic identity theft” is the fastest growing type of identity theft and that children are the most common victims of this type of crime. Synthetic identity theft occurs when a criminal combines real and fake information to create an all-new identity to take out loans, purchase goods, or fraudulently obtain credit cards.

These fake ID’s often use just the child’s Social Security number combined with a bogus date of birth, name, phone number, and address of someone else. Criminals can use this synthetic ID as their own for years without anyone catching on to their scam. They can build a credit profile, get a cell phone account, get loans, get a job, and apply for government benefits. They can also make big purchases like a car or a boat.

It causes problems down the road

When the child victim grows up and applies for their driver’s license, their first credit card, or applies for college, they are shocked to find out they’ve already got a credit profile, outstanding loans, and maybe even a job history with W-2s. They may have had tax returns filed in their name for years. Their credit could be a complete mess that takes years to fix. And in a worst-case scenario, they could have a criminal record, liens, or judgments against them.

Before this nightmare scenario plays out for your child, here’s what you can do.

Limit Sharing Your Child’s Information

Guard all personal information about your child carefully on social media, with doctors, and with schooling. Try to limit the places that have your child’s Social Security number. Push back on requests for your child’s personal information. You have every right to ask what why they need the information and what they’ll do with it.

Become familiar with the Family Educational Rights Privacy Act which helps you protect the privacy of your child’s school records and enables you to opt out of information sharing by the school with third parties.

Freeze Your Child’s Credit

You also should freeze the credit reports of your children. Until 2018 there was no national law that allowed the credit reports of children to be frozen, but in the wake of the major Equifax data breach, Congress passed new laws that now permit children’s credit reports to be frozen and unfrozen for free.

Here are the links to information about how to freeze your child’s credit reports at each of the three major credit reporting agencies:

Experian

TransUnion

Equifax

Monitor for Child ID Theft

With such high risks for children, you should strongly consider having an ID theft monitoring and protection plan in place for your child until they turn 18. (At that point, they should have their own monitoring and protection in place.) You should be proactively monitoring at least the dark web, the USPS address change database, utilities and public records databases for the fraudulent use of your child’s data.

Affordable protection for your child

Find a good family plan like our iDefend family protection platform that does this type of monitoring for your children. A little extra vigilance and protection goes a long way to safeguarding your child’s personal information and their financial future!

Worried They’re Already a Victim?

If you believe your child has already had their identity stolen, notify each of the three credit reporting agencies, Equifax, Experian and TransUnion of the crime and ask them to investigate and remove the false information from yours and your child’s files. Then freeze your child’s credit reports, and be sure you have proactive ID theft monitoring in place for your child going forward.

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